Stephanie Renee Cluff

Want Intimate Sex? See Why “Give & Take” Doesn’t Work—And What To Do Instead

Our world is highly attuned to validation.  We seek affirmation and call it our love language.  We want praise from our boss, acceptance from our partner and gratitude from our kids.  We want to be seen as good or powerful or successful—every person has a different kink.  It’s not that this way is wrong, but …

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18,965 Voted. The Question: “Do You Have Eyes Open Sex?”

There’s no source on exactly how many people have sexual challenges. And people probably underreport sexual difficulties because it can be painful to admit you’re having a tough time. Here’s some of the data we do have.  In a 14,500 person survey conducted by Crucible® Institute based in Evergreen, Colorado the respondents reported that: More than 1 out …

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“Reciprocity” Isn’t The Key To Sex: How Self-Mastery Can Help You Have Better Sex

There are only two types of intimacy in sex. They both involve two people in a committed relationship, but they work very differently. One produces the type of sex most people consider good, adequate, “okay”. And the other results in hot, base, intense moments of connection that are beautiful, erotic, pleasurable, memorable and make you …

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What’s One Way Your Partner Supported You In Labour? 27 Women Share.

There’s something very powerful about men supporting, protecting and fighting for women during labour. Here’s what a number of women said in response to this question: “What’s One Practical Way Your Partner Supported You In Labour?” “He would breathe with me. Including moaning with me. It made me feel like I wasn’t alone.” — Emily …

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